Jewish funeral services vary somewhat among the Orthodox,
Conservative and Reformed branches, but in general the funeral itself
is the beginning of ceremonies instead of the end.
The Jewish ceremony is relatively short compared to
Christian ceremonies, lasting about 20 minutes. The ceremony usually
consists of prayers that praise life and affirm that a life was lived.
Jewish families sometimes prefer that friends make contributions to
charity instead of sending flowers to a service.
Traditional Jewish families remain at home for seven
days after the funeral. During this time, friends and relatives visit
to offer their support. The emphasis is on people getting together
to share feelings and memories, not on religious teachings.
Some families may attend services every day for the
next year to commemorate the deceased. In doing so, they may become
part of a community of bereaved persons with whom they can share feelings.
In contrast to Christian ceremonies, a deceased Jewish
person. s memorial stone or tablet is often unveiled months after
the funeral, which gives family and friends another opportunity to
gather in remembrance. The deceased person’s name is also read
aloud during synagogue service every year on the anniversary of his
death.
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